By OLUMOFIN Kehinde Benjamin

One of the first common features of romantic irresponsible person is sexual rascality. If he is a man, the major goal is every new relationship is the portal between the legs and if she’s a lady, she can be lay very readily and will careless on who she lay with. Just within days of dating, her honey pot is already being marauded by her ‘new man’. In both cases marriage was never the immediate focus…all is just the need to date and satisfied a basal sexual desire. Where this is true, it is primary sign of romantic irresponsible behavior. Whoever wants you so cheap or had you effortlessly cheap will never have you in high regards and whatever sexual favour you get so readily are almost certainly not meant for you.

Now, number two, to be romantically responsible means, you approach every new relationship with the intentions of marriage, but if it fails to work out for whatever reason, it won’t be because you had secretly entered into it with the mind of a predator who only desire either sexual or monetary gains and nothing more, and where that is exhausted, the relationship hit the rock. Behaviors like that tends positively in the direction of romantic irresponsibility.

Third, to be romantically responsible you have to begin to work on your maturity. There is a way girls behave, distinctly different from ways ladies behave. And being a lady is the bridge between the main part, the maturity of a wife. You don’t have to marry before you begin to exhibit the matured characteristics of a good wife-to-be. No sane man wants to lose the blessing that such a woman is once he’s fortunate to meet one. If you don’t see this level of maturity in a lady, and you gets carried away by her beautiful face and sexual appeals, you might be surprised, many of such rarely graduated from being a lady, to being a woman, even when married. Men who are so unfortunate to marry them, soon realized there are more to being a wife than curvy eights.

This is also very true for the men. Please don’t marry a boy or just a man, be on the lookout for qualities of a good husband. Where this is missed, marital sorrows are almost guaranteed in marriages like that because you can’t marry a boy, though rich and working, and expects the behavior of a good husband. There is more to being a husband than being a man. The two are not always in the same vessel.

If you succeeded in this third part, both on yourself and who you finally decided to marry, then you can say to yourself “I am romantically responsible” to myself, to my future spouse and to my unborn children. If not for your sake, please for the sake of your future children, be romantically responsible. They need you to do just that. It is the best gift you can give them, even before you meet them.

Now, if any or all of these three points do not describe you, then you stand the possibility of keeping somebody’s son or daughter waiting endlessly because nobody want to marry a romantic lability, even when other criteria boxes are checked okay. You are an answer to someone’s prayer waiting to be found, but as long as these three are absence, nobody wants an answer that had additional troubles attached. The blessings of God, add no sorrow and if you are an answer to prayer, you should be romantically comforting for whoever finds you. Please think on this things.